SHE WHO DEFINES HERSELF

SHE WHO DEFINES HERSELF

Where the art of living meets the science of change.

Claim My Becoming
The Portal

 

Claim Your Becoming
Begin Within

 

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Living Art

 

Explore What Moves You

                                      

The Portal

Claim Your Becoming

Where Science meets soul.

1:1 Remembering

These private sessions are spaces for truth, remembrance and activation.

 


For those who are done waiting for permission.

 

Explore Private

Rise Together

A guided collective journey into power, presence, and purpose.

 

For those willing to rise together.

 

Explore Collective

Bespoke Experiences

Talks that spark.
Sessions that stir.
Wisdom that wakes.

For those ready to disrupt rooms and reshape culture.

Explore Bespoke

                                   

Becoming Begins Here


A Welcome Love Letter.

I write these words for me.
I write these words for you.
I write these words for us—together. 

Surrendered.  Free. Rooted in deep trust. 

This is a space to fall in love with who you are.
To meet every part of yourself with tenderness and truth.
To come home to your power, your sacredness, your wild light.

I spent too many years shrinking.
Too many years afraid to be fully me.

I believe in my power. In my light. In my sacredness.

And I believe in yours.

Let this be a space where you are free to play, laugh, cry, and evolve—
to surprise yourself with the brilliance and depth already living within you.

A place where all that matters is that none of it defines you.
You are more than that.  

Together, we can create something more magnificent than we could alone.
Together, we remember the truth of who we are.
We dare to fulfill our soul’s deepest desires.
We dare to shine.

I’m ready… are you? 

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Trailblazer's story

 

A Mirror to Your Becoming

I’m a woman who walked the path the world handed her—
and then chose her own.

 

I’m a physician, certified coach, and soul-searcher. For years, I chased enoughness. Despite the degrees and the titles, I felt like an imposter—like I had to prove my worth to belong. Until my soul whispered, What if you already do?

Now, I live at the intersection of science and self. I guide others in the art of living—with power, presence, and truth.

I am the trailblazer of my life. And if you’re here, maybe you are too.

This is my devotion. My rebellion. My invitation.

 

Let’s remember who we are— together.

                  

Trailblazer's story

 

A Mirror to Your Becoming

I’m a woman who walked the path the world handed her—
and then chose her own.

 

I’m a physician, certified coach, and soul-searcher. For years, I chased enoughness. Despite the degrees and the titles, I felt like an imposter—like I had to prove my worth to belong. Until my soul whispered, What if you already do?

Now, I live at the intersection of science and self. I guide others in the art of living—with power, presence, and truth.

I am the trailblazer of my life. And if you’re here, maybe you are too.

This is my devotion. My rebellion. My invitation.

 

Let’s remember who we are— together.

TheMirror

See What's Possible 

Having worked as an ICU bedside nurse for 10 years, I’ve experienced many highs and lows, and recently the challenges have begun to weigh heavily on me. While attending the PCICS conference, I participated in the "Finding Your Joy" workshop with low expectations but left feeling more inspired and motivated than I have in years.

The session taught me the importance of defining my personal purpose and incorporating that into my work. I was so deeply moved by the lecture that I’m now focused on sharing the insights and skills I gained with others on my unit.

Jen Zach

Children’s Nebraska

I just had a wonderful conversation with a cardiology fellow and a picu fellow that was based and born out of your session yesterday. It is so meaningful to have you coach us Saidie. And that’s not just me saying that, everyone whom I’ve talked to have said their fellowship experience has only improved due to you.

On a personal note, you taking the time to focus on me and what I was experiencing yesterday meant so much to me. I didn’t know how much I needed it until you gave it to me. Thank you.

Z.B.

Atlanta, GA

Just wanted to say thank you again to taking with me yesterday and helping me start to reframe those mental battles. Even if I can’t fix these struggles easily or right away, I felt so encouraged in the fact that there is progress to be made and ways I can actually see myself growing. Writing down some of the things we discussed after felt so validating and comforting.

Thank you for the safe space, your warm heart and your kind spirit. You are appreciated.

Ashley Caliel

Atlanta, GA

Wow, Saidie, wow. I am watching a recording of webinar you did. Every unit needs a Saidie for morale. Atlanta is so lucky to have you.

L.S.

Phoenix, AZ

You killed it!!!! They are engaged people but I am telling you, we do not get that kind of enthusiasm generally. They loved it!! Cannot thank you enough!!!

R.K.

Toronto, CA

We are so grateful for the work you do, and please know how much I appreciate you!

K.R.

Atlanta, GA

I wanted to pass [these comments] along to you about the workshop sessions. Comments included "she does it so naturally" "these sessions would be great for faculty too" "please continue these sessions every year" "these are amazing"!

Personally, Saidie was also a joy to work with, taking time out of her busy schedule and being flexible to our fellows' needs and timings.

We love you and everything you do! :) 💕


R.G.

Atlanta, GA

Saidie possesses a rare combination of professionalism, warmth, and authenticity. Her insights have helped me challenge my thinking and be open to new perspectives.

I cannot recommend Saidie highly enough.

Becky West

Highland, Utah

You are a hell of a force, Saidie.

M.M.

Atlanta, GA

I am still thinking about your session and how much I loved it.

S.G.

Toronto, CA

Went for coffee after (coaching) and talking about how grateful we are for you!

M.H.

Atlanta, GA

I met you last week at the Learning To Be Better Teachers workshop where we attended each other's sessions. I thoroughly enjoyed the talk you gave on well-being and perfectionism. We are organizing a wellness workshop for our Class of 2025 clinical year students during one of their end-of-rotation didactic sessions, and we would love for you to give a similar talk to this cohort.

I think our learners would greatly benefit from the reflection activities and practical techniques you shared, especially as they prepare to graduate and start their first jobs as clinicians. Talk soon!

(After Bespoke workshop draft)….This is absolutely WONDERFUL. The mentors and mentees are going to love this!

T.H.

Atlanta, GA

We are looking for someone to do an interactive talk (virtually) on finding your passion/designing your career/wellness etc. Based on hearing some of your content I think you would be perfect.

C.D.

Cincinnati, OH

It’s helpful to discuss emotional challenges we all deal with in a safe space and offering a perspective that can help us not become consumed by the thoughts that arise from difficult situations.

Pediatric Cardiologist

Atlanta, GA

Having worked as an ICU bedside nurse for 10 years, I’ve experienced many highs and lows, and recently the challenges have begun to weigh heavily on me. While attending the PCICS conference, I participated in the "Finding Your Joy" workshop with low expectations but left feeling more inspired and motivated than I have in years.

The session taught me the importance of defining my personal purpose and incorporating that into my work. I was so deeply moved by the lecture that I’m now focused on sharing the insights and skills I gained with others on my unit.

Jen Zach

Children’s Nebraska

I just had a wonderful conversation with a cardiology fellow and a picu fellow that was based and born out of your session yesterday. It is so meaningful to have you coach us Saidie. And that’s not just me saying that, everyone whom I’ve talked to have said their fellowship experience has only improved due to you.

On a personal note, you taking the time to focus on me and what I was experiencing yesterday meant so much to me. I didn’t know how much I needed it until you gave it to me. Thank you.

Z.B.

Atlanta, GA

Just wanted to say thank you again to taking with me yesterday and helping me start to reframe those mental battles. Even if I can’t fix these struggles easily or right away, I felt so encouraged in the fact that there is progress to be made and ways I can actually see myself growing. Writing down some of the things we discussed after felt so validating and comforting.

Thank you for the safe space, your warm heart and your kind spirit. You are appreciated.

Ashley Caliel

Atlanta, GA

Wow, Saidie, wow. I am watching a recording of webinar you did. Every unit needs a Saidie for morale. Atlanta is so lucky to have you.

L.S.

Phoenix, AZ

You killed it!!!! They are engaged people but I am telling you, we do not get that kind of enthusiasm generally. They loved it!! Cannot thank you enough!!!

R.K.

Toronto, CA

We are so grateful for the work you do, and please know how much I appreciate you!

K.R.

Atlanta, GA

I wanted to pass [these comments] along to you about the workshop sessions. Comments included "she does it so naturally" "these sessions would be great for faculty too" "please continue these sessions every year" "these are amazing"!

Personally, Saidie was also a joy to work with, taking time out of her busy schedule and being flexible to our fellows' needs and timings.

We love you and everything you do! :) 💕


R.G.

Atlanta, GA

Saidie possesses a rare combination of professionalism, warmth, and authenticity. Her insights have helped me challenge my thinking and be open to new perspectives.

I cannot recommend Saidie highly enough.

Becky West

Highland, Utah

You are a hell of a force, Saidie.

M.M.

Atlanta, GA

I am still thinking about your session and how much I loved it.

S.G.

Toronto, CA

Went for coffee after (coaching) and talking about how grateful we are for you!

M.H.

Atlanta, GA

I met you last week at the Learning To Be Better Teachers workshop where we attended each other's sessions. I thoroughly enjoyed the talk you gave on well-being and perfectionism. We are organizing a wellness workshop for our Class of 2025 clinical year students during one of their end-of-rotation didactic sessions, and we would love for you to give a similar talk to this cohort.

I think our learners would greatly benefit from the reflection activities and practical techniques you shared, especially as they prepare to graduate and start their first jobs as clinicians. Talk soon!

(After Bespoke workshop draft)….This is absolutely WONDERFUL. The mentors and mentees are going to love this!

T.H.

Atlanta, GA

We are looking for someone to do an interactive talk (virtually) on finding your passion/designing your career/wellness etc. Based on hearing some of your content I think you would be perfect.

C.D.

Cincinnati, OH

It’s helpful to discuss emotional challenges we all deal with in a safe space and offering a perspective that can help us not become consumed by the thoughts that arise from difficult situations.

Pediatric Cardiologist

Atlanta, GA

              

Living Art


A Curated Collection to Spark Your Inner World

Living Art is a growing collection of free offerings— created not to teach you something new, but to help you feel what you already know.

Where curiosity is welcomed. Where beauty becomes a doorway. Where presence is enough.

The Art of Becoming

soulSHINE podcast

soulSHINE: The Art of Becoming is an invitation into the art of becoming—curiously, courageously, and unapologetically you.

Each episode blends reflection, storytelling, and grounded insight to explore what it means to live fully human—without the hustle for worthiness.

This is not content to consume
It’s space to breathe.
To question old narratives.
To return to yourself—whole, brave and alive.

Wild Words

soulSHINE Instagram 

Words, images, and moments meant to be felt.


Offered as gentle interruptions—
 not to persuade or perform,
 but to stir something.

Take what resonates.
 Leave the rest.
 Let it meet you where you are.

                  

something stirred

Follow it. 

Some journeys begin with a question.
 Others with a knowing.

If something here has stirred—if you feel curious, drawn, or ready to explore what’s next—I’d love to hear from you.

Whether you’re interested in private coaching, group work, a workshop, or simply want to reach out, you’re welcome to begin here.

Come as you are.
We’ll take the next step together. 

Begin the Conversation

                  

something stirred

Follow it. 

Some journeys begin with a question.
 Others with a knowing.

If something here has stirred—if you feel curious, drawn, or ready to explore what’s next—I’d love to hear from you.

Whether you’re interested in private coaching, group work, a workshop, or simply want to reach out, you’re welcome to begin here.

Come as you are.
We’ll take the next step together. 

Begin the Conversation

Become who you were always meant to be.

And watch the world rise with you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Claim Your Becoming